Appreciation in the face of disappointment
Quick story.
You ever go to your favorite restaurant and order your favorite dish? You're anticipating savoring every bite only to realize that something was wrong. Maybe the sauce was a little cold or the carne asada was a little salty. It was good but just not that good.
That's how I feel.
You ever have alone time with the wifey and your doing your best to be romantic and she's doing her best to be sexy. You came home from work early. She made sure the kids were away. You get down to business and it's satisfying but not the romp in the hay you were expecting.
That's how I feel.
You ever go to see your favorite band in concert and you're hammered and all your friends are hammered. Everybody you know loves these guys and if they don't then they get excommunicated out of the circle of trust. The concert starts and everyone's jazzed about being there. Then the band comes out. They play all the hits and hit all the high notes. But something just isn't right. The lead singer's a half a second slow on that chorus you love. I mean it was cool but not what you expected.
That's how I feel.
The point to this Spagnola-esque intro is to convey what I think most Cowboy fans are feeling right now: appreciation in the face of disappointment. I'm appreciative of the win. I'm appreciative of the return of balance in our offense. I'm appreciative of the two turnovers our defense created. I'm appreciative of being 4-1. But I'm also disappointed in how close the game was with an 0-5 team. I'm disappointed in Romo's two turnovers. I'm disappointed in our secondary. I'm disappointed in our pass rush and blitz schemes.
I watched this game at my parent's house. Huge flat screen with HD. Thank God for HD. What an awesome invention that was. I'm watching us take a 17-0 lead and we look sharp. We're all over the Bengals like spider monkeys. I love this.
But then we begin to show cracks. I'm yelling for Romo to run and make some first downs with his feet. He does. Then he promptly fumbles. The Bengals seem to be piercing our zone coverage. T.J. Houshmanzadeh is killing us. We're losing our momentum. I hate this.
It's the contrast of appreciation and disappointment. I guess I'm officially spoiled because I expect the 'Boys to dominate against teams like this. I expect our overstocked secondary to make plays, deflect passes and create turnovers. I expect our deep D-line to get pressure and our coaches to come up with exotic blitzes that work. When that doesn't happen I get frustrated.
But that doesn't mean I'm not happy. I am. There are a lot of teams that would love to be 4-1. They are called the Packers, the Bears, the Eagles, the Falcons, etc. All of them would love to be 4-1. I'm happy that we've played so well offensively. Romo has the fifth best QB ranking in the league. Witten is ranked fourth in the league in receiving yards. We're fourth in the league in total offense.
Here's the thing though. We can do better, particularly defensively. We're ranked in the middle of the pack defensively (14th). We're 21st in pass defense. We have one interception this year and that was by Greg Ellis. We've seemed vulnerable to the short passing game against the Eagles, Redskins and the Bengals. Our DBs seemed reactive and not aggressive.
All of this was apparent in this game. We were brillant offensively in this game at times but defensively we weren't sharp. It was maddening. One minute we're pounding them with Barber and slashing 'em with Felix Jones, the next Carson Palmer has all day to throw and Houshmanzadeh is celebrating in the end zone.
These are conflicting emotions but appropriate for the times. I don't think any of us will be satisfied until we get a playoff win and a championship. We're expected to beat almost anybody we play. We're expected to dominate.
I would just posit that we shouldn't get too consumed with disappointment. There were times when we won five games for the season. We have four wins already. There were times when Quincy Carter and Vinny Testeverde were our starting QBs. Now we have a Pro-Bowl QB named Romo. Let's not get too down. We still have a lot to be thankful for.
So be thankful for your favorite restaurant, your sexy wifey and your favorite band. No one bats a thousand. The cook has off days, your wife has off days and your band isn't always sharp. But even when it's not as good, it's still pretty good.
The same for the 'Boys. Even when we're not as good as we could be, we're still pretty good.
Thank God for that.
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Well put, Tuna
The Cowboys came up against a desperate football team yesterday.
The Bengals boast talented receivers, their offensive line proved tough, and Palmer is no slouch. Our defense allowed only two 1st-half field goals, with BOTH drives starting in Dallas territory. After allowing their only sustained drive of the game to open the second half, and despite being under constant pressure from bad field position (Bengals 48, Dallas 41, Dallas 37), the defense allowed only 9 more points.
Better pass rush, better coverage, less turn-overs from our version of Farve… yes, yes, yes.
But this team is good enough to overcome mediocre performances. This offense is good enough to post 31 points on an off night. This defense was tough enough to get the win.
I remain confident that Romo will cut down on the turnovers, that we’ll see more of Felix… that Pacman will get his pic-6, that Ware and Ellis will get double-digit sacks… that the secondary will tighten…
The theme of the first 5 games continues to be “room for improvement” … which is exactly what we want these guys focused on at this point in the season.
Tar Heels football will surprise this year
Cowboys fans should be asking themselves
would I rather see this type of play now, early October when we have over 10 games to improve, or be great on both sides of the ball as well as special right now, then fade again in December?
I know how I would answer that question. I want to see the team grow into a championship team by December, I don’t want to see them be great early on like last season and then get complacent down the stretch like last year.
This team needs to stay focused and by having flaws right now, it gives them the opportunity to stay focused and improve as the season goes on.
In Romo we Trust
Exactly
Point is …. Cowboys are 4-1, and haven’t played well at all. The secondary sucks, but I believe will be better by week 17. Jones has only played 5 games in the last 2 years, we got 2 rookies in the secondary that are sure to get better each week, and our #1 CB has been hurt. Do I think the Cowboys will be the #1 seed, it’s still possible. I think the Giants are better as we speak, but by the end of the year, the Boys should be in great shape. If they were 2-3, I’d be panicking a lot. But at 4-1, they’re still in great shape.
P.S. Dear Tony Romo, you don’t HAVE to throw a pick a game, you know that right?
AHHHH
The 10-12 yd pass is killing the Cowboys on D, what can be done to defend this?
I do have to hand it to the Bengals they did play a good game and used every conceivable way to try and beat the Cowboys ( the onside kick, aaaah @ssholes) however the Cowboys namely Romo, need to protect that ball!!!. 8 games in a row Romo has turned the ball over, at some point he has to stop this (I may have a stroke if he doesn’t).
Patrick Crayton had a clutch catch in the end to finally put the nail in the coffin, but he had a dropped pass that would have kept a drive going earlier in the game. If I were PCrayton I would be worried about my job, Miles Austin looks good as of late and if I remember correctly Sam Hurd wasn’t too far behind MAustin before he got hurt in preseason.
A win however they need to realize that it wouldn’t have been if they were playing a better team.
"The Cowboys are the Greatest team in the History of the NFL. The Philadelphia Eagles Suck, and should be ashamed of them selves. Dallas is a true Champion and we are just posers" yophillybro Sep 16, 2008 7:49 AM CDT
There is a window for good teams to become championship teams
It’s a combination of your own rise in talent and play that translates to wins with vulnerability by traditionally powerful opponents. The stars were aligned for us last year, we know that, but couldn’t take advantage. We all believe this is our year and while there’s plenty of evidence it could be, there’s some creeping in it might not.
Some teams use adversity to gain an edge-Giants have perfected the disrespect theme and it serves them well. Think we can all agree both NY and WAS are better, so far, than we thought. As to the recent uncertainty – it seems to be showing itself as tightness – afraid to make mistakes, and in doing so playing too cautiously(saw far too much if that in Parcell’s era). I see this more on the defensive side of the ball and ST’s. O is almost too aggressive, and far too defensive when their play is questioned. But you could see the tightness creeping in as well when CIN made a game of it.
I’d like to see coaches help this team develop an edge, an attitude they can use to become the champions we know they can be
'You can recognize true genius by this: all the dunces are in confederacy against you' - Sir Francis Bacon
I always love your perspective, TH...
…I’m like you in that although I yell and cuss at the TV when our Boyz do stupid things, I limit my complaints because I think about the three consecutive 5-11 seasons.
And when it’s Romo I shout at, I think, he made a mistake, he’ll bounce back, and he’s furlongs better than Bledsoe, Testaverde, Henson, Carter, Hutchinson, Wright, and Leaf…
You hit everything on da head with this post.
As much as I hate to admit this, but sometimes wins like these are better than wins where we kill our opponents on the scoreboard.
Why?
Because it reminds us of what weaknesses we need to improve upon, and that we’re not kings of the hill and we have to work harder and smarter to develop into being the NFL’s best team.
I want us to remain hungry, and a game like yesterday will help do that more than a blowout win.
"I'll give anybody a loan here if you bet against the Cowboys." - Jerry Jones, with sarcasm dripping from his voice.
www.brainfriednetwork.com [NEWS/SPORTS/FOOTBALL]
agreed
This is a good win. You are going to have some ugly wins during the season, as long as you get the W, that is all that matters.
NYG barely beat Cincy too, Cincy is a talented offense, even more talented with a short field.
We made mistakes, but our D played pretty well. cincy couldn’t drive the length of the field.
"If you see me up in the mountains with a lion, I ain't lyin
don't help me, help the mountain lion"
nice points, Wmillion
plus, our “D” exhibited a “bend but don’ t break” performance in the red zone by allowing the Bengals only two FGs when they had it in the red zone.
our offense has to start getting it back in gear…
"I'll give anybody a loan here if you bet against the Cowboys." - Jerry Jones, with sarcasm dripping from his voice.
www.brainfriednetwork.com [NEWS/SPORTS/FOOTBALL]
Team Struggles
I feel the same frustration. NFL football is a game of inches and Romo seems to be about a centimeter off. Not enough to kill us, but enough to get a pick, lose a fumble, and throw behind an open recever.
The defense plays to keep the long play so we can expect to see more of the dink and dunk from every team we see. Notice that Washington and Cincy had trouble once they got closer to the endzone. There was no room, so they ended up getting feild goals.
The one bright spot, if it really is happening, is that we are struggling now instead of December. Hopefully, we can get hot at the end of the year like New York did last year.
LOL
You ever have alone time with the wifey and your doing your best to be romantic and she’s doing her best to be sexy. You came home from work early. She made sure the kids were away. You get down to business and it’s satisfying but not the romp in the hay you were expecting.
This is the worst!!
I’ll take the victory though.. Time to get ready for AZ, we better be ready to put up some points..
"If you see me up in the mountains with a lion, I ain't lyin
don't help me, help the mountain lion"
Let everyone slobber all over the Giants and Redskins for now
Less pressure on our guys, if that’s possible for a Cowboys team.
Just look at last year. Who is playing better in January is what matters.
+1
Exactly, let us fade in to the background..
I do think we need to get the other WR’s more involved.. Romo’s picks are coming when he forces it to Witten and TO.. I would like to see Austin and Crayton with a couple of catches, just to keep the Defense honest. Romo and our offense is becoming predictable..
"If you see me up in the mountains with a lion, I ain't lyin
don't help me, help the mountain lion"
That would be nice
But realistically, every team is going to get up to play the Boys, and the MSM will continue to make mountains out of molehills, Cowboy bashing is like crack to ESPN and the rest of them.
T-New, shutting down WR's for Dallas since 2003
Nice Spagnola-esque article (LOL)
Dude, if you have kids and your wife still puts effort into being sexy at times, you’re like miles ahead of the rest of the field. Rejoice, bro.
I think it’d maybe be good for our guys to spend several weeks being denounced as the most overrated team in football, not as good as NY or Wash., etc.
What’s Newman’s status?
Exactly how I feel
To risk the boos of a Parcells reference, I was thinking the wins just don’t make up for the losses anymore…Then again it could all be because of the new Cowboys gear that I have been working into the rotation…. Wore it last week, and again this week. Guess it needs to go back in the dresser.
Only In Dallas...
Did we play crappy compared to how we should? Yes. Should it have been a 42-10 route? Yes. Should Romo someday learn to not turn the ball over? Absolutely.
That being said, a win is a win and it’s only October. We have 11 games to keep improving as a team, and unlike last year, we should be in line to peak at the right time, namely the playoffs.
I really hate the Dallas sports media…
by GhostofGaryHogeboom on Oct 6, 2008 11:12 AM CDT reply actions
TH, I lived in Fair Oaks and remember how terrible their attempt at Tex-Mex was .
I could eat Javier’s Carne Asada if it was doused in insect repellant.
It’s all about perspective.
Wharter
now that's pretty damn funny...lol..
i used to go to this place called los amigos in natomas. small place. excellent carne asada and enchiladas. then they moved and i’m stuck with this new place which taste like doo doo on a stick. sigh. it’s so hard to find good tex-mex……one of the real advantages of living in texas is that you pretty much get the real stuff….
"They need security in the world, Craig!"
Nothing is as tasty as the original El Fenix on S. McKinney near downtown Dallas.
And El Chico was just as great.
All of that is history now.
Wharter
way to put it!
I must agree with all that you are saying, but I just loved the way you put this out!
thanks!

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