Blogging The Boys: An SB Nation Community

Navigation: Jump to content areas:


Sports blogs for fans, by fans.
New Blog: Sounder At Heart for Seattle Sounders Fans!

Cowboys @ Steelers: Dealing with the grief

I've worked out my plan for dealing with this disaster of the Dallas Cowboy losing to the Pittsburgh Steelers 20-13.

Accept the brutality - Not even Chuck Norris in all his Internet-legend glory could deliver a roundhouse kick to the solar plexus like that game did. Halfway into the fourth quarter we were on our way to a beautiful victory. It was all there for us. Going on the road, playing the #1 defense, facing one of the AFC's best, battling the elements and walking away with a physical smack-down win that would cement our status. We were going to be the toast of the NFL. The bandwagon was going to beak down under the weight of ESPN and Chris Berman slobbering our praises. For one shining moment, it was all there for us. Then wham, we got pummeled by the Football Gods (and the Steelers). So accept the fact that this team barfed up a 10 point lead in the blink of an eye and wasted a golden opportunity to create a little distance in the playoff race and dumped a super-sized helping of confidence right down the drain. Now, forget about it, because there's nothing that can be done about it.

You live by Romo, you die by Romo - Here's where Cowboys Nation gets all in a twist. To criticize Romo or not to criticize Romo, that is the question. Tony Romo is one of the main reasons we have a team that has been playoff-worthy over the last few years. He's pulled off some miraculous comebacks as well as some straight-up beat-downs of opposing team. His skills are on the elite level and he has a little magic in his game that most other QB's don't possess. But alas, he is mortal, and on some days he just doesn't play well. This was one of those days. His passes weren't sharp for a lot of the game and he turned the ball over way too much, including the backbreaker at the end. Sure, some of his receivers didn't help him out, but it was plain that he wasn't having a good game however you slice it. But I'll live with the bad and hope it's few and far between, because I've seen the good, and if he can harness that down the stretch, this team can play with anybody in this league - and beat them. So I'll live and die with Romo, but I'm still going to call him out for bad play.

Don't get defensive about the loss - Scratch that, get defensive about the loss. The Cowboys defense has come alive over the last month and is looking like a unit that will be a positive in our quest to save the season. They weren't able to close out this game, but the Cowboys offense should have put it away sooner. Yeah, they got a little sloppy at the end and had some annoying penalties but after that game I don't think you can call them soft anymore. Unless, of course, they get blown-out next week. But I don't think that will happen, this defense looks more than ready to help this team win. So thinking about the potential of this defense helps me momentarily forget this brutal loss.

Back to the grind - Nothing is coming easy for us this year, we've had a lot of typical Cowboys craziness going on and we've got a MASH unit worth of injuries. So jump on the "one game at a time playoff-push" bandwagon. I mean what else can you do? Give up and start thinking about the offseason? Free agency and the draft? No way! The season is still alive and by some strange miracle, even though we lost, we still managed to jump into sixth place in the playoff standings. Win out for the next three games and we look pretty good to make the post season. And as crushing as this loss was a month from now, if we win the next three, the bitter loss we currently feel will be no more than an obstacle overcome. Maybe even a teaching experience. Go for the rationalization when you have a defeat like this, pretend it will only make us stronger in the end.

It was a painful loss, and I'm not looking forward to seeing the injury reports this week. Still, it didn't mortally wound us in the big picture. We also got a look at a defense on the rise. We saw Romo play one of his poorest games so maybe that's out of the way for a while and he will be highly motivated to finish the season with some stellar play.

So that's my plan to get rid of this smelly carcass of a game. Next week, the New York Giants feel the brunt of our anger and frustration. You got to have a little faith to survive this season.

0 recs  |  Comment 40 comments |

Story-email Email Printer Print

Comments

Display:

Thoughts

The defense is dope, plain and simple. They were nearly perfect tonight and you can’t blame ’em for the offense putting them in horrible situations the whole game.

Looks like we’ll have our own version of Earth, Wind and Fire next year with Barber, Felix and Choice.

Romo sucked, but those games with Brad and Brooks made me say to myself, “I’ll never criticize Romo again.”

The weather really seemed to play a part in Romo’s sucking. The next two games at Texas Stadium should help that.

We still control our own destiny and everyone should send flowers to the Saints. They helped us out big time today.

One more loss and I’m willing to say the season’s over. Gotta get the Giants next week.

Where will you be when the Sixers hoist the Larry O'Brien trophy? Hopefully Liberty Ballers.

by jsams on Dec 7, 2008 11:41 PM CST reply actions   0 recs

Agony.

Our D was sweet, our O was bitter.

by danielt on Dec 8, 2008 12:05 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

our

defense was amazing and so was choice
if this game was played in texas stadium we would’ve won
i still think we put up a valiant game..romo was off and so were his recievers
i just hope we go 3-0 and get into the playoffs
we need to prove ourselves now

Superbowl or Bust?

by MrMinority on Dec 8, 2008 12:09 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

Amen

Please let Holland be alright.

T-New, shutting down WR's for Dallas since 2003

by APerfectStar on Dec 8, 2008 12:17 AM CST up reply actions   0 recs

After the nausea passed

I started to look at the big positives to take from the loss.

  1. The Defense looked better than ever.
  2. (see number one)
  3. TChoice looks like he can handle being the workhorse back if MB3 can’t go.

T-New, shutting down WR's for Dallas since 2003

by APerfectStar on Dec 8, 2008 12:17 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

Falcons lost.

Where will you be when the Sixers hoist the Larry O'Brien trophy? Hopefully Liberty Ballers.

by jsams on Dec 8, 2008 12:19 AM CST up reply actions   0 recs

I’d say this was a team loss.

Our D was great, but they gave up 10 points in the 4th quarter.

As for Romo, that was probably the worst I’ve ever seen him.

Choice looked pretty good.

From a playoffs perspective, at least the Foreskins lost. I think Joe _uck(face) and Troy were saying that this isn’t a must-win for us, so all is not lost.

by Turbo73 on Dec 8, 2008 12:20 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

Hahahaha

Steeler fan here to rub your face in the defeat a little bit. Usually i dont venture over to the defeated teams site to talk trash because i hate it when we lose but this week i cant resist. I hate the Cowboys that bad. Especially since there was so much trash talking this week about how great Romo is, and how amazing Ware is, blah blah blah our defense did exactly what i thought it would….make Romo look completely stupid. I must say he is a choke artist if i have ever seen one. Will this guy ever win a meaningful game?

I will end on a positive note. I was one of the main ones talking trash on your defense. Those guys came to play this week (even though Ware did`t tear Bens head off like you all said) They all but won this game for you. Also i said Choice would`t do a damn thing and i was wrong with that one too. He looks like a gamer.

Tough loss guys, and i really want to talk more trash but in all reality this was a true slugfest so i have to give credit where credit is due. Don`t worry i`m sure you make the playoffs. You just better hope Blomo can grow a pair.

by SteelerDomination on Dec 8, 2008 12:29 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

I fart in your general direction

tiny brained wiper of other peoples’ bottoms. I won’t be crass enough to log on to your site and tell you how lucky you guys are that you came away with a win. I’m still trying to decipher how much your defense did versus blown routes, miscommunication, etc. I really hope it WAS your defense so I never have to witness that type of loss again. You guys made the plays needed to win and in the end thats all that matters.

by Benthere on Dec 8, 2008 1:03 AM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Defense

It was the steelers Defense that caused all of those turnovers except that fumble on the punt. I saw the play by Romo coming from a week ago. He had never seen the steelers D and i told people on this website that he would not have a great game because he has never seen the Defense, just as others who never played against the Steelers do not have great games.

The first interception looks like a bad pass but either way if he throws to TO i think its a pick because TO didn’t even see the ball, Troy was looking at the backfield the whole time. The second interception was also a great play by Ike who never catches the ball, but made an unbelievable interception on a cocky TO who thinks he can catch over anyone in man coverage. Then at the end the INT is due to the confusion the 3-4 defense does to QB’s and offensive linemen. They had Foote and Farrior fake blitzing which froze up the Guards and Center of the Cowboys which allowed Woodley to get 1 on 1 with the RT. He gets quick pressure up the middle which forces Romo to make a bad decision and throw in Witten’s direction for a pick 6. It wasn’t Witten’s fault but actually Romo’s. Whether or not it was the right route, Deshea steps in front of it to at least break up the pass, which would make a tough 3rd down conversion and Pit would still have 2 timeouts.

Fact is, at that point, the cowboys had been doing nothing in the 4th Quarter on offense and probably would not have and we would have gotten a chance for a game winning field goal. But that doesn’t matter because our defense came through and proved itself as the best defense in the league.

by Bleed-Black&Gold on Dec 8, 2008 4:15 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

looks like we have a case of the trolls on our hands again....

…with nothing better to do….

G'd up from the feet up

by FearRomo on Dec 8, 2008 1:28 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

gotta make the playoffs first!

pray that Jacobs isn’t playing next Sunday!

superbowl talk is still really early especially when you haven’t won a playoff game in more than 10 years.

We both have high stake games against teams we hate next week, so good luck against the Giants and maybe you guys can crush the Ravens after we are finished with them!

by Bleed-Black&Gold on Dec 8, 2008 4:17 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Grizz

Great first take, and I agree with all of the above. Romo was off too much and seemed to rush a lot of his throws, the receivers seemed unsure at times how to adjust and God help us if we don’t see Holland back on the field…

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig loves it.

by dunkman on Dec 8, 2008 5:50 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

well said Grizz

This loss, although painful, doesn’t kill us in the playoff picture, especially since the Falcons and Skins lost as well.

I said last week if we were going to lose a game, losing to Pittsburgh would hurt the least in terms of the playoff picture.

Although Romo had a bad game, so did Roethlisberger, he didn’t play any better in terms of throwing the ball.

I say this this because I was at the game and I can’t really emphasize how brutally cold it was out there. When I was standing behind the Cowboys bench trying to take pictures during warmups, I obviously had to take my gloves off and after just 2 minutes, I couldn’t feel my hands anymore. The wind chill was 5-10 degrees, just brutal. I can’t imagine having to throw a ball in that type of wind with a numb hand.

The defense, however, showed a lot of heart and was extremely impressive. That is very much an encouraging sign.

In Romo we Trust

by Terry on Dec 8, 2008 8:23 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

No interceptions = playing better.

There is no way around it.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Dec 8, 2008 8:43 AM CST up reply actions   0 recs

tough to admit

But Ben out played Romo, by just not playing bad. Romo played bad..

Romo is learning, I’ll take, we are stil in the playoffs if the season ended today..

"If you see me up in the mountains with a lion, I ain't lyin
don't help me, help the mountain lion"

by Wmillion on Dec 8, 2008 12:59 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

no, Ben played bad too

he just didn’t throw any INTs, thats the difference.

Ben played bad, Romo played worse.

In Romo we Trust

by Terry on Dec 8, 2008 3:44 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Right. And bad is better than worse.

Btw, if “bad” is an 80+ passer rating, I’ll take it.

Guns don't kill people. Lamar Woodley kills people.

by BostonWahoo on Dec 8, 2008 4:11 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

SO, Ben played bad, hmmm, I guess you dont give the defense any credit for that

Well, Ben protected the ball and didn’t turn it over, I wouldn’t call that a bad thing. I wish Tony Romo could put together a couple of games in a row without turning it over… I guess maybe that’s too much to ask

by Deke on Dec 8, 2008 4:15 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

He fumbled on the QB sneak

So he did have a turnover

T-New, shutting down WR's for Dallas since 2003

by APerfectStar on Dec 8, 2008 6:37 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

not bad

he just didn’t play good. It was about an average day which is all the Steelers need to win. He actually probably still played above average I would say. We had no running game and Ben made plays with his arm and legs. Not to mention some dropped passes (maybe Dallas had some too can’t remember) but Big Ben showed up to play. So what if he took some extra sacks, at least he didn’t force anything and give up a pick 6 to lose the game. Thats playing pretty good.

by Bleed-Black&Gold on Dec 8, 2008 4:20 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Actually Playing Better = Playing Better

Romo has thrown picks that he then overcame to win. His issue wasn’t interceptions as much as it was not finding the open receiver because he was rushing his throws and then being inaccurate on many of his attempts.

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig loves it.

by dunkman on Dec 8, 2008 5:47 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

As strange as it sounds.

If these tow teams meet again in the Super Bowl, I will be glad that Dallas lost the 1st match up. It’s much harder to beat a team a second time, especially when the two teams areas evenly matched as these two are.

by gee-roj on Dec 8, 2008 9:01 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

won't be 7 degrees outside and the field won't stink, I can guarntee that.

"If you see me up in the mountains with a lion, I ain't lyin
don't help me, help the mountain lion"

by Wmillion on Dec 8, 2008 12:59 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

field didn't stink

that was a great field, i don’t think anyone slipped because of the field and it didn’t look chewed up. So don’t cry about the field being bad other than it being cold.

by Bleed-Black&Gold on Dec 8, 2008 4:21 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Keys to the loss:

1) Romo-terrible game. It happens. Troy had some, so did St Roger, befor ethey won SB’s. He’ll be fine

2) Sloppy play:
- on ST at the worst possible time(again)
- on D with penalties, 12 men on field/10 men on field
- terrible clock/Time out management
This is a lack of discipline, squarely on the coaches

3) Pac Man as returner – constantly put us in terrible field position. When will this experiment end ? He needs to quit going for the TD on every return and just make SOME yardage. He did play lights out pass coverage, though

On a positive note, our D is clearly coming into its own

'You can recognize true genius by this: all the dunces are in confederacy against you' - Sir Francis Bacon

by tdships on Dec 8, 2008 10:15 AM CST reply actions   0 recs

+1 on Pacman

His pass coverage was spectacular…as usual…he’s becoming the #1 guy for us.

by AikmanNailedMySis on Dec 8, 2008 10:50 AM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Every QB does it..

Peyton did it vs. San Diego last year, it happens..

We will be ready for the Giants.

"If you see me up in the mountains with a lion, I ain't lyin
don't help me, help the mountain lion"

by Wmillion on Dec 8, 2008 1:01 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

No Troy did not, nor did Roger

Ever have 3, 4, 5 turnover games, multiples in one season….

Add a turnover on downs to the turnover list and it just gets worse.

Oh, I’m sure Romo will have a nice game again. Unfortunately it will be against the Eagles AFTER the Cowboys have been eliminated from contention or perhaps next year…

by wasmarcus on Dec 8, 2008 4:59 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Troy had 4 picks

Sunday, December 23, 1990. And there was at least one other.

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig loves it.

by dunkman on Dec 8, 2008 6:10 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

And many more with three

and neither Aikman nor Staubach ever passed for the same yards or were asked to carry the team as Rono has been.

You ought to step back and realize that even with his flaws, he’s an excellent QB.

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig loves it.

by dunkman on Dec 8, 2008 6:15 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

I'll take a dog for a QB

Just so long as he doesn’t play like dog **it in December.

Here we are more of the same old same old December collapse. So far in playoff, high pressure or otherwise especially important games, Romo is 0-for-all and there is no reason to expect anything else. Romo’s ‘excellent’ when it’s easy. Mentioning his name in the same sentence with Aikman and Staubach is a smear on the two truly great ones. The Dallas O had no business being on a winning team yesterday and they made sure that they weren’t.

by wasmarcus on Dec 8, 2008 8:50 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

He's 0-2

He’s had two shots at the playoffs. P Manning had three, and six years before he even got to the playoffs.

It’s EASY? Really? If it’s so freakin easy why aren’t all the others doing it week in and week out? I know you’ve bought into tall the crap of “Oh it’s all different in the playoffs”. If that’s the case, the so-calld clutch guys would be doing what Romo is doing. But instead there are about 26 QBs in the league right now who can’t.

And it’s not a smear. Staubach and Aikman have done it themselves. Why don’t you and your Eli poster go share some quality time together?

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig loves it.

by dunkman on Dec 9, 2008 5:13 AM CST up reply actions   0 recs

I agree but would add

Footing. Dallas equipment guys whiffed on this one. Way too much slipping by Cowboys and not so much by the Steelers.

Never wrestle with a pig. You both get dirty and the pig loves it.

by dunkman on Dec 8, 2008 5:50 PM CST up reply actions   0 recs

Comments For This Post Are Closed


User Tools

Dallas Cowboys blog for the SB Nation network. We talk Cowboys 24/7/365. Join the discussion but follow the community guidelines.
Start posting about the Cowboys »

Join SB Nation and dive into communities focused on all your favorite teams.

FanPosts

Community blog posts and discussion.

Recommended FanPosts

Blue-koolaid_small
Way to take that sack Romo!
Captain_small
Seven Statistical Nuggets From The Land Of Sunshine
09_bar-refaeli_08_small
Why The Eagles Game Is Not About Romo
Small
Cowboy / Eagle game analysis - using Drives instead of pure stats
Captain_small
NFL Power Rankings - Week 9 - Final Edition

Recent FanPosts

D-ware1_small
Looking for some advice on a Hotel near Cowboys Stadium
Ollogo3_copy_small
KD's NFL POWER RANKINGS (Week 10)
Small
Stats Only I May Find Interesting
Small
FOX coverage from Afghanistan
Bitty-p_small
The new media-darlings?
09_bar-refaeli_08_small
Dallas’ "Knockout" Player
Porkchop_small
Thumbs Up, Thumbs Down -- First Half of the 2009 Season
Sb_xliv_ring_small
Humble Pie is Yummy!
Ept_sports_nfl_experts-348355349-1231708620_small
Good game..

+ New FanPost All FanPosts >

Latest NFL Headlines from SB Nation

SPONSORS


Editor

Head_shot1_small Dave Halprin

Lead Writer

Small Rafael Vela

Contributing Writers

Villaronga_small Raul Villaronga

Hotdoglu_small Aaron Novinger

Landry_and_fish_small Mike Fisher